How it works
From the door to your seat.
Here's what happens, step by step. You choose how far to go, and nobody sees you until you're ready.
1
Come in
Join free, confirm your email and agree to the house rules. You must be 18 or over.
2
Set your rules
Say what you're here for and who you're open to. Choose what strangers can see.
3
Show who you are
Add a photo, which is checked before anyone sees it. Send a selfie to earn your verified badge.
4
Knock on doors
We suggest people who suit you and who are open to someone like you, and tell you why.
5
Talk when you both knock
A chat opens only when you've both knocked. Nobody else can write to you.
6
Meet safely
Share your plan with a friend. We check on you, and tell them if you don't answer.
How we suggest people.
Suggestions must work for both of you. It runs on our own server, and your answers are never sold.
- First, the hard rulesGender, age and place must suit you both.
- Then, what you have in commonIntents, interests and your answers to questions.
- It learns from youEach knock and pass makes your suggestions better.
