The knock
Go on, knock.
Nobody can write to you until you both knock. Try it: knock on this door.
How a door opens.
1
We suggest
Only people who fit what you want, and who are open to someone like you.
2
You knock or pass
Drag a card, tap a button or use the arrow keys. Nobody is told if you pass.
3
They knock back
They only learn who knocked if they've got Premium, or if they knock too.
4
The door opens
You're both told, and a private chat opens. Until then, nobody can write.
Play with the score.
Say what you're like, and watch your score with this example person change.
Your doors
Your interests
Where you are
Brian, 33Wants dating and long-term. Into art, music, hiking.
What's in your match score.
- What you each wantThe doors you both chose count the most.
- What you have in commonYour interests, and your answers to compatibility questions.
- Both waysThe score looks at how you suit them as well as how they suit you.
- What it learnsYour own knocks and passes tune your own suggestions, and nobody else's.
- Fair to everyoneThe order changes every day, so nobody gets stuck at the bottom.
Extra ways to knock.
Undo a pass
Passed too quickly? Bring them back, on Membership.
Boosts
Move up for an hour, with weekly boosts on Membership and Premium.
Knock with a note
Add a few words on Premium. They become your first message if you match.
See who knocked
See who knocked for you and who viewed you, on Premium.