The porch
Someone's looking out for you.
Everything here is built around one question: how do you stay in control?
Going on a date? Try making a plan.
What your friend receives
Ann, a friend shared a plan with you
- Who you're meetingSam
- WhereA cafe on Kimathi Street
- When it startsFriday at 19:00
If your friend doesn't check in, we'll email you. You don't need to do anything now.
Join to make a real planAdults only
We check date of birth at sign-up, and act first on reports that someone may be under 18.
Checked photos
New photos are screened and checked before others can see them.
Verified badges
A person compares your selfie with your photos, then we delete the selfie.
Only your matches
Nobody can write to you unless you've both knocked. Blocking ends contact at once.
Scam warnings
If someone asks for money or M-Pesa, you get a warning, and a person can take a look.
Date check-ins
Share your plan with a friend. If you don't answer us, we tell them.
Your privacy, your choice.
In some places, being open about who you are can carry real risks. You can blur your photos, hide your age and city, disappear from Discover, or delete everything.
Something wrong?
Use Report on any profile or chat, and a person will review it. If you're in danger, contact the police first.